definitive
Yiyun Li, To Speak Is To Blunder:
What one goes toward is less definitive than that from which one turns away.
人所追求的，远不如其所背离的，更能定义一个人。
要看一个人「做什么」，更要看一个人「不做什么」。
Yiyun Li, To Speak Is To Blunder:
What one goes toward is less definitive than that from which one turns away.
人所追求的，远不如其所背离的，更能定义一个人。
要看一个人「做什么」，更要看一个人「不做什么」。